Browsing through Oprah's site, I saw an interesting article about raising sons with the qualities you'd want in a husband. But as I read on, I found that the article talked about something that has been a puzzle for my father (now at 82)---- men not afraid to show their feelings. So! The question is, did you raise your son with the values you deem important in all men, especially in a husband?
Please read the article, it is quite an inspiring read!
http://www.oprah.com/relationships/Good-Parenting-Tips-How-to-Raise-a-Good-Son/1